Well would you look at that…
I just had the most delightful dinner with a friend that I haven’t seen for close to 5 years.
She is gorgeous this lady. Inside and out.
We chatted over the spinach lamb dish.
I walked her to the tram stop and we hugged.
We talked about lots of things. We seem to be feeling a lot of the same things. We share the same frustrations.
We also both know that we’re incredibly lucky to have what we have.
And what do we have?
We have healthy happy children who drive us mad with their idiosyncrasies and neediness but fill our hearts with love… usually when they’re asleep.
We have husbands who work hard and travel lots to provide for their families but are good at what they do and let us know that we’re loved.
We have dreams of more and desires to be better than just mothers and wives but we know that we’re doing okay.
So what do I know now that I didn’t know 3 hours ago?
I know that I’m okay. That I’m not alone. That friends are worth their weight in gold even if you have to get on a plane to see them. That people who are like you and listen to you and make you laugh are a gift to be treasured.
And whether its a friend from far away or a friend who brings you bolognese or a friend who laughs at you because you’re up late with your cat watching cricket, friends are precious.
I was asked today who my friends are and I said that I wasn’t sure anymore.
But they seem to know who I am and are doing a damn good job of looking after me and for that I’m thankful.